Quick question for you today…
Which motivates you more:
● Running toward something you want (a “carrot”)
● Running away from something you want to escape (a “stick”)?
There is no wrong answer! But it’s worth thinking about, because…
Most of us choose the “carrot” approach to go after things we want.
But working to overcome things we DON’T want can also be a powerful motivator.
Not too long ago I was listening to a podcast with David Goggins, the bestselling author/motivational speaker/endurance athlete/former Navy SEAL/world record holder, etc.
He was talking about how what drives him to go after so many goals isn’t the CARROT…
It’s the STICK — e.g., avoiding the consequences of NOT working toward his goals.
Here’s what I’m talking about:
● He grew up overweight and out of shape — and he never wants to feel that way again
● Growing up, learning was a challenge for him — and he hated how that made him feel.
So now, he uses those feelings to keep pushing himself forward.
For David, it’s not so much about the reward or chasing “good” feelings, as it is about avoiding the consequences and the bad feelings.
Do you have any “sticks” that keep moving you forward?
It’s good to think about because most of us are motivated by a mix of both.
Constantly chasing the “carrot” can cut back on your sense of urgency — and too much “stick” can lead to burnout.
The fact is, your motivation might change from day to day!
This is why it’s so important to keep working on your mindset, the same way you do all the other aspects of your fitness and health.
And that’s one of the things I keep in mind in my one-on-one coaching. It gives you extra accountability and more support from an experienced expert who’s already helped people like you achieve amazing results. You don’t have to go it alone!
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